Sunday, March 3, 2013

A True Friend !


True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf
                                                      Friends are blessings indeed!
                                            And I’m ever so grateful for my friends !

                                            Other than my family and my faith in God,
                                         nothing is more important to me than my friends.


             


                                          Many people will walk in and out of your life, 
                                    but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.
                                                                 (Eleanor Roosevelt)


                          I'm very thankful for my friends which have been there for me .
                                           I have had  some struggles over the years
                                               and I can honestly say that my friends
                                               have got me through some tough times. 
         

True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf
True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf

True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf

True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf

True friends are hard to find, so if you have one, make sure that you let your friend know on this day how much they mean to you. - See more at: http://www.journeymart.com/holidays-ideas/festivals/friendship-day.aspx#sthash.YNc6g5Iy.dpuf
                                                               I consider myself as  ....

A Good Friend

There is nothing like a good friend
To tell your troubles to.
Someone to open up with,
Someone to talk you through,
The highs; the lows,
The everyday struggles,
Someone who knows,
Your every quirk and flaw,
Someone who understands your ways,
And loves you after all.

                                                  Friends are not perfect all the time ....
                                                          We all have are moments  ...
                        

        However I'm grateful for my friends that accepts & sees me for who I am!
                                                         More good  than bad!
                                                
                                                    


10 Golden Rules For Being A True Friend


 By Diggy-upgradereality.com

 1-Honesty
A true friend is always honest no matter what.
It is your duty to tell the truth, even when you know that the truth may hurt and possibly even cost you your friendship (which it won’t if you follow the other 9 rules below).
Never take something without permission, even if you know that your friend will be okay with it. Just ask for permission first.

2-Reliability
A true friend is someone you can rely on.
When you make a promise you will always honor it, and when you know you won’t be able to stick to your promise it’s best to be honest and tell your friend that you can’t keep to the promise.
If you say that you’ll do something or be somewhere at a certain date and time, then be there no matter what.
3-Respect
A true friend respects time, property and beliefs.
  • Time is respected by not wasting it. Be punctual for appointments and let your friend know if you’ll be late or can’t make it at all.
  • Property is respected by not damaging it. Treat other people’s belongings with care and love.
  • Beliefs are respected by not judging. If you know that your friend has certain beliefs and morals, respect them, even if you don’t agree with them.
4- Bros Before Hoes
Please excuse the expression but I found it very fitting.
Choosing bros before hoes means that you don’t choose a girl or a boy over your friend. Don’t cancel your plans with your friend or let your friend down just because you want to be with someone you’re interested in.
If the guy or girl you are interested in is really special to you, you can always ask your friend first and they’ll likely understand. But a true friend doesn’t drop you to be with someone else.
5-Selfless
A true friend will sacrifice their own comfort or happiness and put you first.
They are selfless and would not do something for financial or material gain if they knew that it would have a negative effect on your life.
6-Loyalty
A true friend you will stand up for you when you need it. Also when you don’t ask them to.
A true friend is not for sale and will never do anything that will compromise your success or happiness.
7-Patience
A true friend is patient with you. They are understanding when things need time to change or get better and won’t judge you even when you make the same mistake over and over. As long as you’re making the effort to get better.
8- Laugh Together Cry Together
A true friend is not a fair-weather friend. They are there for  you in good times and in bad times. A true friend also shares their own success with you when they achieve it.
9-Constructive Criticism
A true friend is not scared to tell you what you’re doing wrong . They’re not scared to seriously intervene if they see that something is seriously bad for you or if you’re going down the wrong path.But they always support their criticism with advice that can help you improve.
Don’t just say “You’re going to go bankrupt with your new business plan”. Tell them why you think their new business plan will fail. E.g. “You’re putting all your money into something that is not real, or there is an expiry date on the products you’re buying and I don’t think you’ll be able to sell even 10% of what you’re buying”.
10- Forgiveness
A true friend has the ability to forgive. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes at times. We may even break one or more of these golden rules of being a true friend, but if you realize that you messed up and you really show that you’re sorry and try to make things right, a true friend will be able to forgive you. (Just don’t mess up in the same way again because there is a limit to forgiveness).







 My husband & I are very  blessed to have some new friends walk into our life.  
                       We both  have recently had some friends walk out of our life.
                         We learned to get over the hurt and to accept the losses.
                                   
                                          Some friendships end for a variety of reasons. 
                     Some friends are meant to be by our side for a life time while others
                                          come in for a specific purpose and time period. 


                                                               Sadly I have to believe ....
                                      God brings people into your life for a reason, 

                                     and God removes people out of your life for a reason. 

You can name them one by one ....
                                            Count your friends instead of your foes .....

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